Due to the pandemic during the past year we have had to cancel all the grand adventures that we had planned to share with our grandchildren. The "grandparent" years go by so quickly because there are not many of them.
Thank goodness for FaceTime! But talking and laughing together and blowing kisses thousands of miles across the airwaves to our grandchildren has not been enough to alleviate the pain from not being able spend time with them, hug them, and see the joy in their eyes as we share experiences and create memories.
We have lost over a year with our grandchildren. They are a year older. A year closer to becoming too old for "grandma and grandpa." We will never get this year back. Our hearts ache.
Candice bought a home south of us, just an hour and a half away. So at the start of this year we were able to visit Marina and Stella at their new desert home. And we had the opportunity to show them our home and celebrate Dan’s birthday at Nuestra Casa. It was wonderful!
But we wanted to not just FaceTime with our other grandchildren. We have been longing to “do” things with them--take trips, walk to the diner, hike in the desert, etc.
We have continually brainstormed, discussing ideas of things to do via the internet with them.
During the pandemic Dan has completed over 30 intricate and beautiful model cars. In fact, one of our grandsons loves to build things, so for Christmas we gave him a model to build of his favorite vintage truck. Dan has been teaching him how to build this truck.
The extra benefit is that we have been able to “do things” with his sister, and brother too. Ida recited a school report, and we have been able to admire their cat, puppies, and even the “pet” frog.
It’s been such fun building the truck with Alden that Dan extended invitations to build a model cars with Grandpa to all our grandsons.
Soren and Sebastian jumped at the idea! They told Grandpa exactly what they wanted to build. Dan sent each grandson all the tools, paints, and glue that they would need. He found their favorite car and bought one for each of them and one for himself.
These cars will take several months to build. Grandpa is building the exact same car as our grandsons are building, so that he can demonstrate how to do each step before our grandson works on his own car.
It is slow work, finding the right piece, Grandpa showing them how and where to glue it on, and painting tricks. He is teaching them different modeling techniques and how to understand the complicated directions. And all of this is done via FaceTime and Zoom which makes it even more difficult......but fun in its own way.
It requires patience and perseverance. We are amazed at how all three grandsons exhibit so much concentration and stay focused for the entire hour-long model building sessions.
I get to watch Grandpa teach these three grandsons how to build their model cars, meticulously gluing one little piece at a time. And it is a blast!
Here is Alden building the truck that he dreams of owning when he is sixteen—a green 1953 Ford pickup (don't be completely surprised if Grandpa finds a real one and it just "happens" to show up in his driveway on his 16th birthday):
Sebastian is building a purple Lamborghini—he calls it his “Lambo.”
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